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The Awesome Gifts of Love

Quilt Therapy Posted on July 12, 2009 by TK HarrisonJuly 12, 2009

No big day at church, just another Sunday of gathering together as a community to worship God.  I dropped the hubs & kids off for Sunday School and did my usual “try to overflow this shopping cart in an hour or less” trip to the grocer before I needed to be back in time for services.

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Usually, I get cash back when I check out, so we have funds to put in the church offering; and so hubs can buy his favorite brewski after church (stores can’t sell alcohol until after noon in the county we worship in).  However, today, I totally forgot … and by the time I pushed YES on that little debit machine, it was too late to take it back and try again.

So, as I picked up some items from the pharmacy, I remembered to get just enough money for our offering.  No more, no less.  Just enough.  We didn’t have anything we needed cash for, in the near future, and hubs could use the debit card when he got his lager and the dog food.

During church, the kids were restless and I barely heard the Pastor’s sermon.  We had to switch places a few times, so a parent was between as many kids as possible (2 vs. 4 – not good odds for separating them).   I was preoccupied, to say the least.

During one of our praise songs, the kids were looking around the sanctuary and pointing out who was dancing along with them (an inside family joke, as our church here is a bit more conservative than our church in Utah was, where the children were allowed to use hand-held percussion instruments and sing and dance to their heart’s content during services and that raises a few eyebrows in our current church) – when I noticed a couple of guests at the back of one section of pews.  These guests were not sitting with anyone, but the lady had on a skirt and blouse (whereas I wear jeans to church), so it was nice to see some new faces amongst the usual crowd and notice that they dressed up for church. 

(side note)  I am not disrespectful in my choice of clothing for church.  First, my skin allergies are such that I can only wear cotton, and with my limited wardrobe, that’s jeans or cotton slacks.  I don’t wear dresses because I can only wear canvas shoes – with socks, because my feet are usually blistered – a bit tacky, even for me, to wear socks with a skirt (unless it has a poodle on it, of course!).  Second, I don’t believe God cares what we wear to church – we are there to worship Him, not judge the clothing options of others. 

But, as I walked passed the visitors, they were clearly not as clean as we were and a little smelly.  I didn’t say anything aloud, just sent up a little prayer for them.

After church, Pastor came up to my husband and quietly asked him if he had any cash money.  The church office is closed on Sundays, and he doesn’t have access to cash.  Not thinking much about it, hubs said that he always puts “Pastor’s discretion” on our offering envelope, and it was cash, so he was more than welcome to take that envelope, and use the funds, if he could find the lady who counts the monies.  Once the money counter was located, it was determined that she had the safe combination and could get the Pastor the funds he requested.

As I walked to our car, I turned back…in time to see the new visitor I had previously seen following Pastor back to the office.  And when I sat in the car, waiting on hubs, I saw that the man she was with was in a wheelchair, waiting utside, in 90+ degree heat, for her. 

And then it hit me.  These visitors needed some help, and Pastor needed the funds to help them out.

And it hit me again, as I drove over the hill to our home, how awesome and amazing that was!   I don’t know if Pastor asked any questions, but hubs said he didn’t think so (he’s visited with Pastor before about the needs of so many in these hard economic times) – people needed help and Pastor gave it to them.  No matter who they were, he gave what help he could from his discretionary fund.  That’s what it’s there for, and he uses it in the best way he knows how. 

I vowed to pray for Pastor and his wisdom and generosity, and for our ability as a faith community, to help others.  And although we’re not in any way monetarily well-off, next week, we will take Pastor an envelope with some cash in it – an on-the-spot discretionary fund, to be used as he saw fit.

And I prayed again, that I would have the ability to help someone who needed it, no questions asked.

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Blessed

Quilt Therapy Posted on July 10, 2009 by TK HarrisonJuly 10, 2009

I’ve been blessed recently, by re-connecting with some long lost folks from my youth. 

One word of advice, always remember to say thank you to people who blessed your life, in one way or another.

I’ve resumed communications with cousins and high school friends, a previous foster family and a foster-cousin…and even my own extended family has caught up with the technological times and started communicating more. 

I, for one, LOVE it.  I enjoy the conversations, enjoy sharing with everyone and it does a heart good to feel the love from miles away.   And it’s a wonderful feeling, when you finally allow others to be a part of your life (I’ve never been so good with trusting relationships, based on my past).

For all of this, I still say THANKS.  Because love does make the world go ’round.

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Couldn’t Help Myself

Quilt Therapy Posted on July 8, 2009 by TK HarrisonJuly 8, 2009

When DD#2 and I went in Missouri in May, I’ve mentioned that we stayed at my best friend from high school’s house on our way up and back. 

Well, there was this dog.  oops, I hope my husband isn’t jealous, because I did pine for his sweet disposition and wanted to save him from the evils of the world around him.  hehe  Except, of course, his legs were too sort and his belly too tubby to jump up into our Explorer 😉

I can’t even remember what his name was, but he belonged to SS’s neighbors…and the neighbors got a new dog, and this poor, puppy-dog sad pooch began spending his days at SS’s house…lounging around on her front stoop or sunning himself in their back yard.

Although everyone there thought I was bit off my rocker, I had to snap a few photos of him – he was just too entertaining to me!  Just reminded me of a country western song, waiting to be written – and howled …

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Enjoy Your Trip HOME, Freddie

Quilt Therapy Posted on July 7, 2009 by TK HarrisonJuly 7, 2009

A gentleman, and gentle man, passed away last week.  We met him through church, and he never failed to make the rounds of the sanctuary before church started - teasing the kids, talking to the adults and asking me where my husband had run off to this time (JD teaches Sunday School and was often caught up in conversation after his classes, so he’s not always in the pew when services start). 

My husband and son enjoyed Freddie, especially during their monthly men’s breakfasts, when Freddie would either be cooking or chatting away with everyone.  He always had a smile on his face.  Always.

Freddie and his family became a part of MY life when his step-granddaughter was removed from Freddie’s son’s household (for no apparent reason, except spite) by her mother and placed in the local children’s orphanage.  It just so happened that M then went to school where my daughters go to school – and I became a secret go-between for the families….letting Freddie and his wife know that M was ok and passing letters and cards, secretly, between Freddie’s family and M (I took on this responsibility, as an adult, because I didn’t want my daughter to get into trouble for doing it).  I felt it was only right – because M was a child, and needed love moreso now than ever before – and Freddie and his family had tons of love for M.  Unfortunately, I was also the one to have to tell M that Freddie had been diagnosed with cancer late last year.

A few months ago, a local lodge had a celebration of Freddie & his wife’s life – and M was allowed to attend.  We were so excited that she at least got to spend a few hours with her “chosen” family.

Yesterday, we attended the funeral services of Freddie.  We had only seen our church that full at Christmas Eve services, three years ago.  Freddie was loved by OH SO MANY people; I feel guilty that I was such a small part of his life, and considered him a friend….when he and his family apparently had so many more who loved him for many, many years. 

And Freddie was a jokester, amongst one of his many loving talents.  He always shared a joke, physically touching you as he talked.  It made you focus totally on him and the words he was speaking.

Our pastor who was conducting the service, mentioned that Martin Luther believed that a tombstone / grave believed that it was God’s door.  When a person was lowered into the ground, Martin Luther said that was the front door to heaven, and Freddie was getting ready to knock on it and claim his final reward.  What a beautiful sentiment!

At the cemetery, we showed reverance as the retired military performed a 21-gun salute and played Taps (which never ceases to bring a tear to my eye, as both my dad and my brother were in the military and buried with the same military flag ceremony).  Once the flag was presented to Freddie’s widow, the thunder and lightening began and the skies opened up and began to pour.  JD and I were able to get our front sides under the funeral tent, but our back sides caught the drip-off of the tent, and were soaked.  As we walked up to Freddie’s widow to pay our respects, she saw our dripping clothes and smiled.  She told JD that the last thing that Freddie prayed for was rain, so she supposed we needed to blame him for getting in the last laugh.

Godspeed Freddie – we’ll have a joke for you, in eternity.

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Camping at the Harrison Wilderness Base

Quilt Therapy Posted on July 3, 2009 by TK HarrisonJuly 3, 2009

Every Fourth of July my MIL hosts a family / friends reunion up here on the hill – sweaty kids running rampant, adults yelling over everyone else, dogs barking and tents galore.  Now, let me tell you – the citi-fied people who show up here endure just a touch of culture shock when they camp – so much so that my SIL bought two window air conditioner units, and she plugs them in and puts them in the DOOR to her tent!!!  There’s some redneck camping for ya!

This morning, as everyone was still asleep, I snuck around my office shed and took a pix of the campgrounds, just because it was all so peaceful and quiet and reminded me of days long ago when I used to camp (before the skin allergies) as a kid in one of my foster homes:

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Happy Birthday America!  Hope you and yours enjoy it as much as mine and ours are going to!

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