My nephew is in jail and today is his birthday.  I feel bad for him, though he really needed to be formally punished for his actions.  But, it’s hard to take – especially given that his dad (my brother) is in prison, too.  I try not to compare the two, as my brother wasn’t around much for Cody (genetic vs. environmental is the question that begs an answer) as he was growing up.  But, it’s hard knowing that the addiction gene that our family has has already shown up in my nephew.

In light of his circumstances, Cody, we wish you a Happy Birthday.  We hope you feel the prayers we’ve been sending up for you and hope you know that we love you, unconditionally.

Aunt Tammy & family